This is not us being negative but simply pointing out the obvious.
Feel the pain. Don’t run away from it. Pain teaches you important lessons. Just as tears clear the dust from your eyes, so will a broken heart force you to mend it.
Let your pain complete its course. Respect pain. It has a direct relation to the heart. No amount of cigarettes, whisky, beer, rum, vodka or taquilla, sex or drugs can take you away from pain.
The only thing that can take away your pain is the situation that makes you face it.